"JULIA!! An hour later, they had dinner. Not only was someone finally listening to me I wasnt the only one and made me feel amazing. It took me a long time to break it and not without some regressions. Yes, I had a vivid imagination as a child and could turn any space into a ship, a castle, a rocket or an alien planet, for example, and enjoy an exciting adventure! interservice rivalry japan hoi4. I am curious that your mother carried on changing you until you were 13. Pat the stain dry with paper towels. If she has held her poop in the past, it's possible that her rectum has lost its feeling and she doesn't know WHEN she has pooped. i soiled until the age of 14. reading your blog has been very interesting as it has allowed me to look anther persons experience of soiling. Was allowing you to stay in messy underwear a way of avoiding dealing with the problem?I was never really disciplined or encouraged to stop, even when I was still doing it into my teens. For endurance athletes, youre shunting blood away from the intestines and towards the muscle mass. At the end of the conversation she said something like, ok, well at your age you should know better, so I supposed we are just going to have leave it at that. If I couldnt find somewhere private to go I just held it in even when I knew what was probably going to happen. The first place to turn to is your child's doctorshe can offer professional advice and rule out issues you may not see. 1. Peppa Poops On Her Teacher( New Grounded Series) Peppa Pig Poop. I had this problem for most of Junior high to high school. Still don't need to go. This is the second three-day period in which he decided to quit using the potty. I couldnt explain how constipated I was so creating a story was the next best thing, so thats exactly what I did. I thought about telling the driver to stop but that was a terrifying. It was during that walk home I made the very conscious decision to get good at keeping it secret. When you say "she knew my person experience", do you mean that she also had soiling problems at some time? done. Very odd stuff to say the least. Otherwise, I would use the commodore or the floor. I was also allowed to go places after school with my friends with a quick stop at home to tell my mother where I was going. It seems that we were similar in a lot of ways, I started soiling because I thought that I could make the feeling of needing to poo go away without going to the toilet. Show more Show more Master. Good luck! I do however really enjoy the desperation side of things, and have forced myself into situations that make it feel like an accident. 0:56. Trying to stop wasnt working at all but hiding it did and that made me feel better about myself. I was twenty one years old. good thing that came out of it was that I was never tempted to do it again. The feeling of pooping out a nice load into your diaper and sitting down while wearing the loaded diaper is such a satisfying feeling. this wasnt the case for me. When I had finished I resumed When there are stressors in play, its inflicting that stuff to hurry by way of the pipes.. She's not an adult. leaving my bottom and entering my underwear. When I soiled my pants at home, my Mum would change me straight after finding out that I'd had an accident, and as soon as possible if I did it while we were out. One mother on Mumsnet whose He knew he would be moaned at for soiling Stop punishing her and assuming she's doing it to piss you off. Most of my first day of high school was spent with a load in my underwear, which was rather crushing at the time. I got away with it without being discovered and started doing it more and more often. Dab away at the stain slowly. I often wet myself a bit from waiting too long or being too embarrassed to ask. Hi, thanks for your comment. Yes, I can remember withholding once when I was right outside the bathroom because I did not want to stop what I was doing. While I enjoyed playing with other children, I was also happy playing by myself, which I often did when I had messy pants.I've never considered that my imagination was linked to my encopresis, but who knows, you might be on to something! Quora User Author has 5.5K answers and 817.3K answer views 6 mo "Would you poop your pants on purpose?" Really? I started washing my own clothes quite young and also used cologne long before any of my friends or classmates. You were lucky to meet a former enco kid, who was willing to share her experiences with you and use them to help you. Once again, I I sh*t my pants right on the rock wall of one of those rock climbing gyms. I dont know anymore but I find it odd that its been about 6 months since the last time this has been an issue then all of a sudden 2 days in a row. that wasnt until quite a while after, so I supposed she was waiting to see what I did to resolve my situation, which was nothing. Even if I had wanted I would always try to change quickly and hide my pooed undies - which would regularly be discovered and lead to huge humiliation. No one Poop learn the opposite, held aloft by a toddler. Hi James, I think your first theory has some relevance as it made me feel in control. Recently discovered communism Jan 11 Only if it was for a HUGE prize. Up until then and like you I believed I was the only one on earth my age that did it. I do not agree with such advice.You say that leaving you messy did not encourage you to stop soiling, and I don't think it would in my case either. I'm sorry to hear that. May 8, 2021. Sorry you still have occasional accidents and I hope that you are able to cope with these. most of the time there were smears of poo often known as skid marks. But I suspect that the real reason was that it just seemed the easy Hi Anonymous,There were quite a few times, but the worst was probably during an excursion in my second year of high school. Simon the Almighty 13 years of life experience. For several reasons, I don't think she would have considered leaving me in dirty pants for the rest of the day.As well as it being unhealthy and unsanitary to leave me messy, she would not have wanted me stinking up the house and sitting at the dinner table or on the sofa with dirty pants. No one was better than anyone. Getting through the rest of the excursion unnoticed was the second but when we got back to school, I quickly discovered keeping it secret was far from finished. I have often thought how great it would have been as a child if I'd had a friend, boy or girl, who also had toilet issues whom I could have played with without fear of being teased or laughed at if I'd had an accident. I think there was some connection between the two, but more from the ridicule and embarrassment of being known for sucking my thumb. pants, changing me at my grandmothers home would have been nearly But it turned out to be a really good group that taught us coping techniques and strategies to keep our underwear and pants clean. my underwear caked in my poo really brought home to me just what I had We were made to feel disordered when maybe we are not at all disordered. I'm also certain that no member of staff at my school would have changed me if I'd had an accident in Year 6 or, indeed, in any year later than Year 2.I never had to wash my own underwear, and the issue with boxer shorts never came up as I have never liked these garments and have carried on wearing briefs to this day.I hope you are able to help your nephew and can use your own story and mine to help. then i would carry on playing. The teacher had told everyone to stay together and there was no way I was going to miss the excursion. I did try to explain it to my parents but nothing I said seemed to change their minds. It was so embarassing to still be doing it in junior high and having to wear pull ups to school. hello, would there be times when u witheld your poop when u were at home near a toilet as an older child? - i.e. I lacked confidence and was often anxious but doing it in my underwear gave me comfort. I think it must be uncomfortable and I don't think it's a smart choice, but if you wants to poop in your pants, I guess that's your choice." You can psychologically harm a child by doing something like that. 1) then i would carry on playing untill i got another urge to poo. Hi JamesI was probably quite fortunate in that I never filled my pants at school to such an extent that the school intervened, it was almost invariably a gradual process that occurred throughout the day, and I never alerted a teacher but tried my best to hide it. So when I had to take a dump I crapped my sisters pants. Hi jason. In the same way that you may How To: Poop Your Pants Rod Squad 467 subscribers Subscribe 337 54K views 9 years ago Hope this tutorial helped! And then go from there Talk to the pediatrician. Your school experiences sound awful, particularly that day with the supply teacher in Year 6. This comment has been removed by the author. anyway. As your parents and society at large expected you to use the toilet, you chose to go in your pants instead.The other theory I have heard of is the idea of comfort soiling. Holding it back or stopping it part way made my constipation a lot worse, so I didnt. Sort by: Hot. It seemed like the only time she ever really made an issue out of it was when it was going to affect her directly. Finding out someone else not only had the same problem, they still did make me feel fantastic. As you say, it didn't feel disgusting at the time, just a natural way to see if I had pooed my pants. This might be a medical condition and not an "attention" or power struggle. Yes i pee my pants all the time - it is your own choice if you think it is okay or not 50 3 Amelia Crouse Author has 193 answers and 1.4M answer views 1 y Related Have you ever pooped or peed your pants? what sort of answer would you have actually accepted from her? I also had a phobia with the toilet cubicles, which didnt help.Getting good at hiding it meant I didnt have to deal with my phobia, and I liked having a secret that no one knew. they contained my accidents and held them in place, so I didn't have poop falling out of my pants! When the new teacher first began to question me, I had become very defensive but fortunately she persisted. !" shouted her mom. He refuses to play with his toys, or play games with my sister. Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. The way I said no uncomfortably, probably confirmed to him, that I had infact pooped in my pants. Hi Anonymous, Being part of a support group and knowing you were not the only one with the problem must have been great. I hope that writing about your past has helped you in a similar way that it has helped me. No, I did not tell my Mum when I pooed in the toilet, and I do not think she would have celebrated the fact if I had. Otherwise there is nothing to hold! himself, but even she was shocked by how badly I stank. "Julia, you pooped in your pants. That weight of the problem could be shaping the way you're handling the training. I soiled them was not an option. Did your parents ever impose any rules on you? hey check my profile out and read all my posts. So cute in emoji form, so humiliating as an adult. It has not been easy to write about this, as it is It No, I would not poop my pants on purpose. I think she was often too busy to clean me up and I agree with you there was an element of 'out of sight out of mind'. I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. When my friend and I got back no one said anything, so I was completely oblivious until his mum pulled me aside and questioned me. Then you know you have a different problem. Is she not feeling well with a cold or something that is making her less aware? CALMLY talk to her. PEPPA PIG POO POOPS HER PANTS!!!! You can have your shame, just don't eat it too. She made me come to the front of the class, pulled my trousers down and pulled the back of my waistband on my undies. At the time I probably thought I was wasting my time and after all I somehow believed she had given me permission. I was a teen and would have rather died than had people know about my pants pooping secret. So, they just soil their pants because they feel like doing it. Without going into too much detail, I want to know if other kids do or have done this as well. Shes older than I am and was unkind to me growing up because of this issue I was potty trained by 18 months, but in year 1 at primary I began to be embarrassed about the toilet and withhold until it was too late. She'll get tired of it real quick and don't give her any attention over it. Someone pooped (feces) their pants while in a dance-off! This will get most of the moisture out of your pants and/or underwear. Then again today, she had a small streaker (not from not wiping properly) and she admitted that she knew it was there, told us when she did it (hrs before hand) and didnt care. You can have constipation mixed with diarrhea (other conditions have this as well as some moms have mentioned) so I wouldn't rule out a medical cause - just because they go regularly doesn't mean there can't be compacted stool. He wants to lay in bed all day. did not think for one second of using it. The remainder of the walk was a slow, teary, squelchy one. deliberately messing himself. I had never felt so scared and humiliated in my life. Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. I must have been more imaginative then most because I could play alone for hours without getting board. CARL DE SOUZA/AFP through Getty Photographs. She would have regarded it as something an older child should be doing anyway. On average, how much poo was in your pants? Hi James, I think your experiences and story probably resonate with a lot of people that struggled with soiling when they were young. I was still doing it when I moved out of home to share a house with some friends. We questioned her about it and told her we were extremely upset and clueless as to why she would do it and why we were back to pooping in our pants and sitting in it. She tried to explain it to my mother, but she quickly realized that was a waste of time. Need to rule out any medical issue. I had gone there with a friend and his extended family. Not wanting to stop playing when I was 3 was how I started withholding and soiling. The thing I liked to do the most was exploring around the estate we lived in where there was always something interesting. That was usually late in the afternoon, unless I was told to, but that rarely happened. Seriously - that was the reason. This was the 1970 and 80s and very few people had heard of encopresis. So now I'm lying there, freaking dead, just praying that he can't see me. This is a story about a gay teen couple on their first ever road trip. Hi. to go back inside the house where my mother and grandmother were talking I couldnt hold it. why would I go to the toilet and do my poo there if I can crouch down and poo my pants and carry on playing. It must have been a few days since I had used the Explanation: Passing a large stool can stimulate the vagus nerve, that, among other functions, connects the gut to the brain. Three of these occasions were in our van. I got quite good at keeping it secret and that became a challenge for me, rather than admitting there was a problem. One of them was during a holiday break when 3 of my cousins stayed at our house. one of my most painful memories of my childhood, certainly the worst that was a https://www.mamapedia.com/article/potty-training-regression-again, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/almost-3-year-old-and-still-refusing-to-poop-in-the-toilet-plzzz-heeeeeeelp, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/potty-training-and-pooping, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/6-year-old-not-wanting-to-use-the-bathroomo-when-he-needs-to, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/5-yr-old-still-pooping-in-pants, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/poopie-older-pre-dash-schooler, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/help-with-potty-trained-35-yo-girl-that-suddenly-is-having-accidents. I would often be so caught up in what I was doing that I would be almost oblivious that I'd pooed in my pants, until the moment when my mum smelt me, which is when the shame of it would hit me. Instead I had to endure an Now I know that it wasn't just a fart!Just like you, I still had accidents in high-school, but was really good at hiding it. Try NOT to poop/pee your pants (Girls) Girls: take your seat and test how long you can hold your pee/poop! It was one of the only times she threatened to put me into diapers, but I somehow knew she wasnt serious. I was used to doing it, and good at keeping it secret, but as the load pushed into my underwear, I was surprised how big it was. You need to let it go. 5.) A GoToQuiz Unique: Big Five Personality Test, permits you to alter sliders to fine-tune your responses to a sequence of questions. I woke up promptly at six am to my host mother knocking . I would take her to the dr to check it out. And now you're included in that list. here's a woman that is clearly pooping in her panties on purpose, apparently she didn't know she was filmed by the supermarket's hidden camera! It was so embaraasing! It really is a horrible moment you know that you've pooed yourself in the company of others, when you know that you're the one who's the cause of the terrible smell and you just have to hope that no-one finds out that it's you.I also remember the girl sitting next to me in class accusing me of having farted, when I'd actually had a small accident in my pants. The longer the poop is stuck there, the more water is removed and the harder it is to push the large, dry poop out. The other embarrassing thing for me was that I only wore briefs when everybody else at high school was in boxers. When it did I just made an excuse and went home before anyone noticed, that worked until I was at a friends birthday party. 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